Not being able to have a child of your own is not an easy thing to deal with. You might have gone for counseling at some point and thought you were comfortable with it. You get reminded of your situation when you have to attend functions where most people turn up with their children.
For really inspirational and uplifting words on how you can cope with your situation you could look up any of these: inspirational words words of encouragement christian encouragement scripture
The first thing that I will say to you is that in every condition there is always hope but to find hope you must first accept the fact you are facing , that you might not be able to have children of your own . You should be able to get to a point where you can talk about it openly and without fear, after all it wasn’t a choice that you made to be infertile was it. There is still a chance at being happy just don’t use having children as a way of defining your happiness.
In most cases you find that your spouse is the one that has problem with you not being able to have children and makes it hard for you to accept. The situation calls for understanding from both parties and you should be willing to see each other’s points of view.
Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Try somewhere where the both of you will be able to relax and feel at ease.
you can access sites that offer words of encouragement and possibly link you with other people in a similat situation. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.