How to Stop Creating Emotionally Inept Men
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I frequently tend to attract the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or traveled a great deal.
When you continue attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to take in right now, but that’s what I have found to be the case most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get extremely clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity about what it is you truly desire. You’ll begin to realize where any inconsistencies are in your vibration as you make the list. You will see where you need to go to increase your level of creation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It’s time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful things you’ll do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Most of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you receive, it’s not polite to ask for favors, why can you not just be happy with what you have? - kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
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